February

Meeting in his Day Nursery.. I was SOooooo Angry!! Because they said that Emil wasn´t normal and couldn't understand a thing they were saying!!!! It was a shock and frustrating because I couldn´t see it, he understood everything I said, if I told him to do things then he would do it. Like getting his clothes on, where he in the day nursery were screaming when they told him to get his pants on where they then changed his pants for another pair, they didn´t tell him he had to.. He was putting the pensel in his mouth and drank the water... Which he never did here. and when they told him not to he didn´t listen and they thought he didn´t understood what they were saying... He was open and closing the doors but I notice he looked at the adults trying to get their attention but according to them it was something els...
So I tried to tell them that his parents just spilt up and boys are behind with things than girls. He didn´t had many words but were talking a lot but without meaning/words. I asked them to give him time and show him who decides what. And when they tells him to put on his clothes and he doesn´t want to then tell him that he has to... But they were afraid to harm him???? I was like WHAT???? Of course Emil didn´t understood a thing when got it his way with te clothes then why should he listen when they said no to him...?!

So Emil went twice to their speech teacher to see if he wanted this time.. At first which were in his Day Nursery he didn´t want to so I told the speech teacher that she come home to us and check him there, it went better but Emil was still insecure of what was going on.. She notice that she hardly had any eyecontact with him.. Don´t know why because I know I have and friends and family who is coming to my place has too...

I had to take the day off from work because I was sooo hurt by the way the whole situation were handle. When to my friends house;O)We talked about all the positive things she had experience... Like once both of us were there and when we were gong to say goodbye I hugged my friend and Emil to hug one of her girls.... And he also went to their rooms to see what they were doing....ETC

I went to my own doctor to get some help about Emil but the doctor talked about Emil still using diaper and he didn´t said many words... That was his worries...

Went to check Emil´s hearing at an ear, nose and throat specialist for the third time and he was like HALLO EMil´s hearing is normal!!!

Emil ´s granddad (my ex´s dad) came by for coffee and a talk!

Superbowl and I couldn´t see it because I couldn´t get the next day off from work BOO HOO!!

Went to visit my aunt and uncle.. I really love spending time with them;O) So we went to a marked where you can buy old stuff and I always find something I can use!!!

Emil and I went to visit minna and Nora from my parenting group really nice and many things to talk about with all the meetings with Emil´s day nursery!!

Ride my bike with Emil in his chair to my mom where we stayed outside for an hour playing on the playgrounds and there were some to try.

Went to visit Stine and Ida from my parenting group also many things to talk about as I said before. Stine told me a great news she is pregnant and expecting in September. A Big Congrats!!