March

One day Emil and I went for a drive first we drove by my aunt and uncle but no one were home then we drove by my cousin´s Henrik bakery but he wasn´t there then I called home asking if they gave coffee and they did so we drove by for couple of hours. it was really nice seeing them again!!! They just got some snakes and I hold one of them and it shit on me LOL;O)

Then our last meeting so far where the psychology appear she end up saying that because of the mom has success with keeping him at the activities then they should do the same... and she said the reason why he open and closed the doors were because he is bored so they had to offer him some of the activities he likes... and try to offer him to be with one person so its getting easier for him.
Finally someone who is listening and I was glad;O)

For my birthday I got a paid from a friend so we found a day to go out and eat.. Pretty nice;O)

Then some from work went out for dinner and bowling.. It was fine but I wasn´t that good at bowling... I like this guy well I guess I´m sold/in love been like this for a while but got no chance with him at all.
Its a long story... After flirting a lot and having much fun some months ago... We had a real good talk... Too good a talk :O( Went home right after.

A HUGE Congrats to my friend Britta who gave birth to Phillip March the 11th weight 2885 and 52 cm... Everything went so easily Lucky woman;O)

Right after gameday I drove by te hospital to visit them;O) He is so adorable;O)

Emil and I drove to kyndeløse to visit my uncle and aunt.. We went for a walk to the water near by. Emil enjoyed it very much he also played with some toys suddenly he did a forward roll... I was like wouw cool and it was first time he did one by himselves;O) then he took my hands and go up my legs and did a forward roll cool first time he did that too awesome...

Had a meeting saturday at work where my ex´s dad looked after Emil.. They went for a drive and had a real nice time which were awesome;O)

Mom and sister came by we had to arrange our trip a weekend somewhere in Denmark. We found a hotel in Dronninglund up north of Jutland... It was going to be from Thursday till Sunday in May!!

Went out to eat and a drink with the girls from gameday... nice day and great talk;O)

The day after I went out with my sister and one from work ... Had a lot of fun...as usual..

The day after my sister and I ride to the habour and got an icecream.... My sister having hangover after last night lol

A Huge Congrats to Merete who gave birth to a son 54 cm and weight 3910g;O)

February

Meeting in his Day Nursery.. I was SOooooo Angry!! Because they said that Emil wasn´t normal and couldn't understand a thing they were saying!!!! It was a shock and frustrating because I couldn´t see it, he understood everything I said, if I told him to do things then he would do it. Like getting his clothes on, where he in the day nursery were screaming when they told him to get his pants on where they then changed his pants for another pair, they didn´t tell him he had to.. He was putting the pensel in his mouth and drank the water... Which he never did here. and when they told him not to he didn´t listen and they thought he didn´t understood what they were saying... He was open and closing the doors but I notice he looked at the adults trying to get their attention but according to them it was something els...
So I tried to tell them that his parents just spilt up and boys are behind with things than girls. He didn´t had many words but were talking a lot but without meaning/words. I asked them to give him time and show him who decides what. And when they tells him to put on his clothes and he doesn´t want to then tell him that he has to... But they were afraid to harm him???? I was like WHAT???? Of course Emil didn´t understood a thing when got it his way with te clothes then why should he listen when they said no to him...?!

So Emil went twice to their speech teacher to see if he wanted this time.. At first which were in his Day Nursery he didn´t want to so I told the speech teacher that she come home to us and check him there, it went better but Emil was still insecure of what was going on.. She notice that she hardly had any eyecontact with him.. Don´t know why because I know I have and friends and family who is coming to my place has too...

I had to take the day off from work because I was sooo hurt by the way the whole situation were handle. When to my friends house;O)We talked about all the positive things she had experience... Like once both of us were there and when we were gong to say goodbye I hugged my friend and Emil to hug one of her girls.... And he also went to their rooms to see what they were doing....ETC

I went to my own doctor to get some help about Emil but the doctor talked about Emil still using diaper and he didn´t said many words... That was his worries...

Went to check Emil´s hearing at an ear, nose and throat specialist for the third time and he was like HALLO EMil´s hearing is normal!!!

Emil ´s granddad (my ex´s dad) came by for coffee and a talk!

Superbowl and I couldn´t see it because I couldn´t get the next day off from work BOO HOO!!

Went to visit my aunt and uncle.. I really love spending time with them;O) So we went to a marked where you can buy old stuff and I always find something I can use!!!

Emil and I went to visit minna and Nora from my parenting group really nice and many things to talk about with all the meetings with Emil´s day nursery!!

Ride my bike with Emil in his chair to my mom where we stayed outside for an hour playing on the playgrounds and there were some to try.

Went to visit Stine and Ida from my parenting group also many things to talk about as I said before. Stine told me a great news she is pregnant and expecting in September. A Big Congrats!!

January

Had the first week off pretty nice spending time with Emil.
We went my moms 60 year birthday, where we went to the playground because he got bored inside, visited my old job went better than first expected, at the zoo with my mom, bad weather but the good thing were that there weren´t many in there, pet the camels and a horse they got loose quite fun. Both Emil and I went to the dentist, he has 20 and they looked absolutely fine;O) So did mine. We also went for a walk in the forest twice.

Going out with some from work Julie, Anders, Mikkel, Marc and Kasper a bit boring and I went home 2 am with a headache.

Gameday with a friend and one from work its always lot of fun and we try to do it once a month.

Emil went to a doctor who specialise in allergies... Because they said at his day nursery that he was allergic even thought I said he weren´t allergic. I was right!!

My ex and I had a meeting with Emil´s Day Nursery where their speech teacher took part and we planned that she should check him..

Emil went once to their speech teacher, they (Day Nursery) want to check Emil how much he understood because they thought he didn´t understand anything. He didn´t want to, I guess he could feel my anger towards the whole situation.

Ikea, Out For Lunch And Birthday

I wish Britta a very Happy Birthday, 32. I hope you have a wonderful day with your family!!
Together with Emil and my mom we drove to IKEA where I bought few things I needed and more LMAO!! It was the first time my mom was there... My mom wanted to buy lunch for us so we drove to Roskilde to Bella Napoli it was really nice and I droved her home right after... Went home and right after supper we drove to my friend britta´s birthday and stayed couple of hours really nice!!!

2nd Christmas Day

Emil and I went with my ex to his dad for soup... my ex´s moms were coming too. After we eat soup we went for a walk in the forrest near by and it was really nice and awesome weather... Afterwards we went home for pancakes with icecream....
Stayed couple of hours and it was soo nice that I was invited!!

Back Home

We drove home right after breakfast I just wanted to go home with all our new things...
But it was a nice Christmas where we were 12 people pretty nice!
I´m not good with smoke so when we got home we took a shower and I did the laundry it was smelling of smoke and food!!!

Merry Christmas

I wish Everyone A Merry Christmas...

I went with my ex and Emil to Ejby at his moms... We were about 12 people..
We tried to get Emil to take his nap so he would be ready for later but nope he didn´t wanted to sleep.. We tried through the movie Cars. Saw Chistmas Dinner at 4pm which is a tradition to watch!! Emil was doing just fine afterwards until we weer going to eat he could and he was crying so we end up laying him down so he could sleep and only few minutes went by and he was sleeping.. he got alittle hours until we were done eating then we got ready to dance around the Christmas Tree. And Emil was with us and tried to sing few songs with us lol;O)
Afterwards we were opeining gifts and he and I got sooo many... really nice...
He got clothes, books, toys etc and I got perfume, book, clothes, gifts token, games etc
Emil came in bed at 10pm.. and slept until around 9am!!!
When Emil went to bed, the rest of us went around the table to play a game where everyone had brought a gift.. So we played with dice and when you got a 6th you exchanged gifts... A lot of fun...

The Day Before Christmas...

My ex , Emil and I drove to the forrest for a walk.. It was pretty nice and nice weathers..
Els just relaxed and had a nice day!!!

Exchange Christmas Gifts..

First met with Rikke to buy lunch then we went home and had lunch and exchange Christmas Gifts...

Later we went at my mom for dinner and to exchange Christmas gifts.. First as usual Emil wanted to go home until he has been there for a while.. But he walked around with his booths on eating few cookies and had a nice time;O) I looked at some pictures from when I was a kid same age as Emil but aren´t sure its me he looks alike....
Stayed couple of hours before we drove home, after a really nice time;O)

Allergy

We my ex and I went with Emil to Specialist in allergy because they say in his day nursery that they think he has food allergy!!!
We talked and he told us that we had to take a bloodtest for couple of things to find out that way if Emil is allergic to some sort of food...
We went to take some bloodtest and Emil went in to panic because we had to hold him and the nurses thought the reason was because he didn´t like needle but it was most because we had to hold him....
I had take the day off... pretty nice so we just went home to relax and play with his toys etc!
Later my cousin came by to exchange Christmas gifts... When I came back from London she had written a letter and said she was sorry.. So we talked alittle about what happen...

Dinner At My Aunt And Uncle.

Emil´s granddad looked after him while I was at work.. Emil was feeling better but took an extra day..
When I came home his granddad told me he didn´t wanted to take his nap Emil felt asleep few minutes before I came home.. So Emil got to sleep a little hour before we drove at the country to my aunt and uncle..
It was really nice as usuall, They had bought Christmas gifts for us and I hadn´t brought anything which was very bad. But emil he got socks with Calgary´s NHL Team "Calgary Flames"
and I got a Lucky penny key chain from Calgary..
Pretty nice and I saw photos from my uncle´s son wedding, he got married October last year!!

Game Day

I had invited some friends over where we play board games, games and have a nice time...
My ex came over with Emil because my ex needed to do some things I think it was Christmas shopping.. But emil was here while the girls were here. It was fun and really nice!!
Ihad Emil because he was too sick to go with his dad... Chicken Pox! Emil was going crazy because he had sooo many and they were ichy...

HangOver

Pew I felt aweful the day after being sick but its the first time since.... I can´t remember!!
At around 11am my ex came with Emil he was going to be here for an hour while his dad had to buy some Christmas gifts... I felt fine at that time and could play a lilttle with him..
A friend was coming but when she came I was sick and tired so I cancelled.. We talked about doing it another day!!
Slept couple of hours.... And felt just fine again and not sick anymore...

Christmas Dinner

Christmas Dinner at work.. At 12 we began cooking 6 different meals with pasta salads and ordinary salad... We were done at 7pm where the others came.... We were about 25 people and it was sooo much fun. Between the meals we had a game, one with dice where it had to be a 6th and then you put some clothes on and try to open a gift with a plastic knife and fork and its until the next person who gets a 6th. Just before one of my colleague opened it, I got a 6th but he opened anyway but because he had almost no hair i got the gift token to a hairdresser....
One of my colleague had brought a bottle Absolute Vodka and we were about 4 to drink it plus we drank more and pew... But we had sooo much fun drinking, laughing and dancing..
I got sooo drunk and around 3am we walked downtown to a danceplace "Gabos" and danced until 5am where they closed and some of us went on to get something to eat and I was home at 6am..

Christmas Dance

At work we had a Christmas dance for everyone, it was fun and with great music.... later santa came with goodies;O)

Hello

I wish A Huge happy Birthday to my oldest sweet cousin henrik who turns 40, I hope you had a quite day with your family!! He has his own bakery Guldbageren.

Coffee At My dad

Emil and I went to visit my dad... He was shy and hadn´t slept and of couse my dad´s girlfriend had to mention that:( gr.... But after a while it got better and he ran around without any trouple but I think that my dad´s gf didn´t like it.. But who cares; I try not to because we aren´t there for her but for my dad!!

Big Step

Once a months Emil go to Baby Handball from 10.30am until 11.30am.. The last couple of times he had only play with all sizes of balls but this time he also crawl through a tunnel and walked on a beam, which is a huge step!! Great done Emil;O) and you could see Emil was sooo proud when he did it...

Sick In December.

I wrote the day before I left for London that Emil´s dad was sick.. Emil got sick too and were sick most of December... First he was snotty, coughing, inflammation in the middle ear, Pinkeye
and last chicken pox.. And he wasn´t sick Christmas or New Years Pew... So now I hope and wish for that Emil won´t get sick for a long time!!!
I was sick with my back in 3 days after my trip to London. Emil was soooo snotty as well so he stayed home too.

London!!!

Yes London.... I went to London with Dea from my work and we went from November the 29 till December the 3rd. We stayed on a Danish Ymca near hampstead. What we did while we were in London were... we went shopping at Oxford, Regent Street, Piccadilly Circus, Trafalgar Square, Soho, Amato on Old Compton Street, Notting Hill, Portobello Road, Covent Garden Market, Camden Lock Market, Euston, Hampstead etc.. I went to the Disney Store and Hamleys where I found couple of things for my son.. Also went to some others store.. Went to Covent Garden Market where I bought A Build A Bear with a message for my son... We we also went for a walk along the Thames River, where we went to Tate Modern, London Eye In The Evening but it was raining but you could still see the light!, Big Ben, Houses Of Parliament, crossed the millinium bridge, walked by St. Pauls Cathedral... Just been walking a lot. We also went at the theatre to see The Lion King it was amazing... We also went at the movies Stranger Than Fiction it was a bit weird but great acting from them..
We also went on an bar an Australian bar but only got one beer then they closed at 1 am:O( we were suppose to go another day but one day I got a huge back pain because we were walking sooo much so I had to buy some painkillers and I didnt wanted to drink because I didnt know the effect with the pills!!
It was a busy trip too busy i thought sooo many places on short time!! But I bought some Christmas Gifts for my son!!