July

Went home at 5am this morning later together with Rikke we walked 15-16 km it was a beautiful day... We walked along the water to the habour in Veddelev awesome...

Someone from Borneklinikken went to Emil´s day nursery to observed him.

I went to meeting 2 days after at borneklinikken to hear about how it went!! My ex couldnt come and told me to find another day but he could do it by himself it was not my job to do so... I was soooo nervous and had a stomache..

They told a lot of positive things like he´s independent, want to say a lot but couldnt say the words, but he understand everything, he can play imaginations plays don´t know if thats the right word.. they aren´t sure if he sees the other kids or not.. They can´t say what´s wrong or not wrong with him so they told me that he was going to come couple of times 1-2 hours at day where they observed him and test him while we are there to find out whats with him.... I asked him if he wasn´t going to go in kindergarten but they said no its only for kids who can´t be in their day nursery/kindergarten so he aren´t that bad.. I told them at day nursery and she said that well she has only been here one time so... I was like WHAT.. She is such a B....

Went to visit Koglerne where I was going to work as a substitute so I can earn some money to my trip to New York!! I´m going to work there while Emil is having vacation at his dad.. Had 6..

Yes I´m going to New York.. I can´t wait its going to be sooo awesome and its going to be the third time I´m there!! I´m going together with friend Rikke who was so kind to actually pay the trip for me saying I shouldn´t worry about it and I have Emil... I wish one day I could give her a trip somewhere or give her among of money so she could do whatever she wanted to!!

Happy Birthday to Christian who turns 3 and Merete who turns 32 on July the 5th.. Hurra Hurra to both of them...

A parent from work asked me if I wanted to help out at gymnastic for kids age 4-5 starting up in September... Yes I would love to and I may bring Emil along.. Its going to be soo good!!

Went to visit Tina where we had supper, played games and had sooo much fun as usual!! We actually played Trivial Disney!!

Together with my cousin we went out after work (worked until 11pm) had sooooo much fun, talked with a guy who my cousin know.... went home at 5am fun fun time!!!

Emil went to spend 2 weeks vacation at his dad..

Pretty weird one day when I came home my mom had put my key in my mailbox without a word?!! She got the key if I lost my key or she was going to pick up Emil...

Went to the hospital twice to get my gallbladder scanned... First time he couldn´t find it thought it was because I had eat some liquorice so I had to come again so I did... He found it but it was to dark said it 5 cm long and 5 cm thick so my gall bladder is either full of small stones or calcify... that´s what he said...

Happy Birthday to Anne who turns 32 on July the 19th Hurra Hurra..

Visiting Bodil where we talked about life, work, education, men, family and so on..

My ex wrote me a message that Emil has been horseback riding on a big horse with his dad on his side... unbelievable balance..

Together with work everyone both kids and adults went rowing... Each adult had one or 2 in each canoe. It went so well out to the lake to a place where we had lunch but on the way back it was windy so some of us where rowing a long time at the lake until 2 guys came and we brought the kids to their canoe and one I work together with we had a canoe tied to our and we managed to get back where the others were waiting for us.. I was exchausted like anyone els... But fun and had a nice time with some of them I work together with!!! next time we should bring along a phone so we can get in touch with each other!!!

The last day before I began my summer vacation with some from work we went to The planetarium where we saw a movie The Blue Ocean. It was OKay too short..

2 days and Emil is coming to spend summer vacation together with me. Its the first time I have ever been away from him and I miss him a lot after being away from him in 2 weeks..

I went swimming together with Tina nice exercise.. Slept 3 hours... Britta called if she and her son could come by for a cup of coffee well it was coffee to her...;O)

Later my cousin came by right after work for a cup of coffee!! I drink too much coffee LOL;O)

Emil came July the 30th YES YES wonderful... 3 weeks together 2 weeks vacations.

First day we stayed home. Just him and me...

Then we visited stine and ida and emil and ida played and had fun...

Soccer/Learning Skills/Work

So much had happen...
first of all Denmark played soccer against Sweden tonight and we were behind 0-3 and suddenly it became exciting 3-3 until Poulsen got the red card for hitting a Swedish player and then a fan ran towards the referee and attacked him.... What an asshole!!! So the referee cancelled the game and Denmark lost 3-0!!!! Damn it has nothing to do with sport!

Couple of weeks ago I asked how it was going and she told me that he understood most of what they were saying, he is not playing with the doors as much as he did before, he stills need to be alone with an adults. and when he doesn´t what his clothes on they tell him that he has to and that its their decision. And this I told them all along CHEESE:O(
But we are still having him exam so we are totally sure there are nothing wrong with him or what it is... But one thing is sure that they didn´t handle the situation professional.

Emil is learning many words and trying to learn the letters he is really interesting in them. So I bought some letters with magnets on. He has learned to ride his 3 wheel bike really nice. He likes to help out and is always in a great happy mood...
I´m trying every weekend he is here to go to our swimming hall to teach him to swim.

Emil hasn´t been much sick this year which is pretty great.. Even thought both of of were having a cold few days ago and I´m still snotty...

Do you know the kind who has to mention everything you eat, how much... How healthy and how your tummy looks, what you say or do to make them feel better...? This is how it is where I work. Its soooo annoying and I should say something and I will some day... I have to if I want to stay there.Also every pedagoge has a class and I have a new class who begun May 1st... And every one has something to say about what to do and not to do etc... Well they have their own class and I never mind my business in theirs so I wished they would do the same!!!!Don´t get me wrong its okay if they say something but only if I ask them to.

June

First we Rikke and I went shopping in Fields and when we were done we went to Copenhagen at the movies where we saw the new Pirates of the Caribbean: At World's End and it was sooooo good!! loves it!!

Went to vist my auntie and uncle I love being with them and they mean a whole lot to me!!

Emil went to the zoo with the day nursery and they told me that it went so well!! I was like DOH!! of course it went well!

Happy birthday to my dad who turns 61 on June the 11th...

A couple from work we went running it was a relay race in the park we have in Roskilde. You could run 5 or 10 km.. so my group ran 5 km. I was going to practise before but never got the time but I ran 5 km on 39:36 minutes I think it was pretty good after all..

One day Emil and I were sitting outside on our balcony and suddenly there were a baby who cried and Emil looked at me and pointed the spot where a kid bit him on his arm and like he was telling me that he cried too when a kid bit him!!

Few days before my ex calls me and tells me he is sick and ask me to have Emil on the day I´m going running. I say no because when I ask him he always says no.. he said I was the only one and I asked him to ask his parents even thought he already asked them... So he did and this time he told them why which he hadnt done at first stupid!!!! So he got his mother to look after Emil here at our home so he didnt got confused!!

Emil and I went to Phillip´s christning, it was really nice even thought Emil was abit (I don´t wanna be there, with all these people I dont´know)..

Emil spend a weekend together with my mom and her friends in a summer house. He enjoyed it very much;O)

Together with my cousin we went to Justin Timberlake and Timbarland. It was a real awesome concert which lasted 3 hours!!!

Emil and I went to my mother 60 birthday I went early home with Emil because he was just running around.. I asked my ex if he could come and get him but he couldn´t his gf was there so I took the bus to his place and took a cab back and stayed til 1am where Julie from work picked me up and we went out.. dancing and had fun with guys until 5am.

Happy Birthday to Rikke who turn 32 on June the 28.. Hurra Hurra!!!

May

First day in May SFO closed nice;O)

Now its time to have my own class, I can´t wait its going to be so nice and finally I can decide whatever I want with them...

Together with one I work together with Louise and I have decided to make her (2nd grade)class and my class (o.Grade) friends.. We split them up in small groups with 4-5 girls and boys in each group.. Where 2nd grade help the new kids about rules and about going in SFO! Our goals are they are becoming friends between them and etc..

Lisbeth comes by for lunch at 12 it was really nice and had a great talk awesome mostly because in the beginning some years back we didnt get along!! But we surely do now and thats great!!

Happy Birthday to my sweet Auntie who turns 50 on May 5th!! Hurra Hurra.. I went to her birthday and had a really nice time talking with my cousins whom I don´t see that often!!

Emil zipped his jacket on his own!!

One of the things which is nice being a mother is to be outside on the playground with your kid and see how he grows and learn things.. And the same when you go swimming with him..

From may the 17th and 20th went to Dronninglund up north of Jutland...
Both my cousin and I were a bit nervous about it because my mom can be.....!!
One day we went to Aalborg Zoo so different from the one in Copenhagen.. There were a baby giraffe and a baby hippo. So cute!!

Went shopping in Aalborg..

Went to Skagen and to see the 2 oceans meet what a beautiful sight!!!

Ofcourse my mother should act like a child grrrrrrrr so annoying so I was happy that my cousin was with me!!

Right after work Emil and I went to visit Stine and Ida where they played and it was a nice time as usual!!
Emil was going home to his dad so he came to pick him up and for supper I went to an old friend I have known since we were kids.. We havent been in touch for years but when we meet on the street and did talk!!

Then at work we had Bingo where 2nd grade helped 0.grade with the numbers and it was real fun to see how they grown helping the youngest with the numbers...

had an arrangement with kids in 0.grade and their parents where they got together and eat and could get to know each other.. I was there too together with 2 others.. nice its a good way to get to know them...

April

Bought a new phone pretty nice its a sony ericsson w 880i..

Emil, my sister and i ride to the harbour to feed the ducks and bought an ice cream...

Went out with my sister and one from work. when we got to the dance place a man stopped us and we had to show ID... I was like eh what... you have to be 19 to get inside and I was 33, my sister 26 and one I´m working together with she is 19 she just said she hadn´t brought anything so my and I were standing thinking OKAY!!!! Here we are two old farts who has to show our ID and she doesn´t.. I think I will take it as a complement.. but it wasn´t that much fun when we came inside it was cold and I wasn´t n the mood and had a stomach ache.

The day after I went to my aunt, uncle and their dog Ally mcBeal. Visit my aunts brother who live near by... Called my son o hear how he was and asked my ex what he has been up to and my ex didn´t wanted to tell me... I got mad and hanged up. I couldn´t believe this but I guess my ex was in a bad mood as usual... Stayed for supper but suddenly I have got pain right under my breast.. At first I thought it was because I was very hungry but weren´t sure. My aunt thought it was stress. I don´t know but it was gone about an hour afterwards!!! I stayed the night.. It was nice so I had someone, if it got worst again.

Few days after I still had some pain so I went to the doctor while my mom looked after Emil.. The doctor felt on my stomach and by the thing I told her she said it might be a gallstone and I was like what isn´t old people who gets them.. So I had to get my blood tested so I got one the next day and my mom looked after Emil.. I hate needles..

Had a visit from minna and nora... Nora is a girl who knows what she wants and she wants emil´s toys but now he says no!!!!! and doesn´t let her get him!!! Awesome.

Britta and phillip comes by and this is first time after his birth I see him.. Emil knew he had to be gentle towards him.

Went to Ikea together with Emil and Tina, bought few things...

Stine and Ida came by, Emil and Ida were really giddy around it was sooo funny to see and it was the first time they have done this LMAO Awesome to see... Went to our playground stayed for a while before they went home..

Emil, Rikke and I went for walk to the forest really nice and took a while I was sooo tired in my legs afterwards but a great walk..

Been to Roskilde Swimming Bath together with Emil and Tina... it has been a long time too long since I went swimming with Emil.. So now it was time.. It took few minutes until he felt secured and then he loved it.. Its funny because when we are at the beach he just walk out in the water without any fear!!

One evening after supper we went for a walk and went by to visit my old neighbours laila and per.. Nice and it was the first I saw their new apartment!!

In week 16 (April, 16-20) at work everyone were outside both kids and adults.. really nice and it was fun..

Gameday with Tina and Dea it was fun as usual;O)

Because my 3rd grade were stopping in the SFO we had a sleepover and I wasn´t sure it would be a good thing with these kids. I was right there were one fight after the other annoying and sorry to say this but I arent gonna miss them!!
Went home at 9am next morning great!!!
Went home took a shower and together with Emil and I we went downtown shopping and had lunch..

Emil has learned to ride his 3-wheeled bike great!!!

March

One day Emil and I went for a drive first we drove by my aunt and uncle but no one were home then we drove by my cousin´s Henrik bakery but he wasn´t there then I called home asking if they gave coffee and they did so we drove by for couple of hours. it was really nice seeing them again!!! They just got some snakes and I hold one of them and it shit on me LOL;O)

Then our last meeting so far where the psychology appear she end up saying that because of the mom has success with keeping him at the activities then they should do the same... and she said the reason why he open and closed the doors were because he is bored so they had to offer him some of the activities he likes... and try to offer him to be with one person so its getting easier for him.
Finally someone who is listening and I was glad;O)

For my birthday I got a paid from a friend so we found a day to go out and eat.. Pretty nice;O)

Then some from work went out for dinner and bowling.. It was fine but I wasn´t that good at bowling... I like this guy well I guess I´m sold/in love been like this for a while but got no chance with him at all.
Its a long story... After flirting a lot and having much fun some months ago... We had a real good talk... Too good a talk :O( Went home right after.

A HUGE Congrats to my friend Britta who gave birth to Phillip March the 11th weight 2885 and 52 cm... Everything went so easily Lucky woman;O)

Right after gameday I drove by te hospital to visit them;O) He is so adorable;O)

Emil and I drove to kyndeløse to visit my uncle and aunt.. We went for a walk to the water near by. Emil enjoyed it very much he also played with some toys suddenly he did a forward roll... I was like wouw cool and it was first time he did one by himselves;O) then he took my hands and go up my legs and did a forward roll cool first time he did that too awesome...

Had a meeting saturday at work where my ex´s dad looked after Emil.. They went for a drive and had a real nice time which were awesome;O)

Mom and sister came by we had to arrange our trip a weekend somewhere in Denmark. We found a hotel in Dronninglund up north of Jutland... It was going to be from Thursday till Sunday in May!!

Went out to eat and a drink with the girls from gameday... nice day and great talk;O)

The day after I went out with my sister and one from work ... Had a lot of fun...as usual..

The day after my sister and I ride to the habour and got an icecream.... My sister having hangover after last night lol

A Huge Congrats to Merete who gave birth to a son 54 cm and weight 3910g;O)

February

Meeting in his Day Nursery.. I was SOooooo Angry!! Because they said that Emil wasn´t normal and couldn't understand a thing they were saying!!!! It was a shock and frustrating because I couldn´t see it, he understood everything I said, if I told him to do things then he would do it. Like getting his clothes on, where he in the day nursery were screaming when they told him to get his pants on where they then changed his pants for another pair, they didn´t tell him he had to.. He was putting the pensel in his mouth and drank the water... Which he never did here. and when they told him not to he didn´t listen and they thought he didn´t understood what they were saying... He was open and closing the doors but I notice he looked at the adults trying to get their attention but according to them it was something els...
So I tried to tell them that his parents just spilt up and boys are behind with things than girls. He didn´t had many words but were talking a lot but without meaning/words. I asked them to give him time and show him who decides what. And when they tells him to put on his clothes and he doesn´t want to then tell him that he has to... But they were afraid to harm him???? I was like WHAT???? Of course Emil didn´t understood a thing when got it his way with te clothes then why should he listen when they said no to him...?!

So Emil went twice to their speech teacher to see if he wanted this time.. At first which were in his Day Nursery he didn´t want to so I told the speech teacher that she come home to us and check him there, it went better but Emil was still insecure of what was going on.. She notice that she hardly had any eyecontact with him.. Don´t know why because I know I have and friends and family who is coming to my place has too...

I had to take the day off from work because I was sooo hurt by the way the whole situation were handle. When to my friends house;O)We talked about all the positive things she had experience... Like once both of us were there and when we were gong to say goodbye I hugged my friend and Emil to hug one of her girls.... And he also went to their rooms to see what they were doing....ETC

I went to my own doctor to get some help about Emil but the doctor talked about Emil still using diaper and he didn´t said many words... That was his worries...

Went to check Emil´s hearing at an ear, nose and throat specialist for the third time and he was like HALLO EMil´s hearing is normal!!!

Emil ´s granddad (my ex´s dad) came by for coffee and a talk!

Superbowl and I couldn´t see it because I couldn´t get the next day off from work BOO HOO!!

Went to visit my aunt and uncle.. I really love spending time with them;O) So we went to a marked where you can buy old stuff and I always find something I can use!!!

Emil and I went to visit minna and Nora from my parenting group really nice and many things to talk about with all the meetings with Emil´s day nursery!!

Ride my bike with Emil in his chair to my mom where we stayed outside for an hour playing on the playgrounds and there were some to try.

Went to visit Stine and Ida from my parenting group also many things to talk about as I said before. Stine told me a great news she is pregnant and expecting in September. A Big Congrats!!

January

Had the first week off pretty nice spending time with Emil.
We went my moms 60 year birthday, where we went to the playground because he got bored inside, visited my old job went better than first expected, at the zoo with my mom, bad weather but the good thing were that there weren´t many in there, pet the camels and a horse they got loose quite fun. Both Emil and I went to the dentist, he has 20 and they looked absolutely fine;O) So did mine. We also went for a walk in the forest twice.

Going out with some from work Julie, Anders, Mikkel, Marc and Kasper a bit boring and I went home 2 am with a headache.

Gameday with a friend and one from work its always lot of fun and we try to do it once a month.

Emil went to a doctor who specialise in allergies... Because they said at his day nursery that he was allergic even thought I said he weren´t allergic. I was right!!

My ex and I had a meeting with Emil´s Day Nursery where their speech teacher took part and we planned that she should check him..

Emil went once to their speech teacher, they (Day Nursery) want to check Emil how much he understood because they thought he didn´t understand anything. He didn´t want to, I guess he could feel my anger towards the whole situation.

Ikea, Out For Lunch And Birthday

I wish Britta a very Happy Birthday, 32. I hope you have a wonderful day with your family!!
Together with Emil and my mom we drove to IKEA where I bought few things I needed and more LMAO!! It was the first time my mom was there... My mom wanted to buy lunch for us so we drove to Roskilde to Bella Napoli it was really nice and I droved her home right after... Went home and right after supper we drove to my friend britta´s birthday and stayed couple of hours really nice!!!

2nd Christmas Day

Emil and I went with my ex to his dad for soup... my ex´s moms were coming too. After we eat soup we went for a walk in the forrest near by and it was really nice and awesome weather... Afterwards we went home for pancakes with icecream....
Stayed couple of hours and it was soo nice that I was invited!!

Back Home

We drove home right after breakfast I just wanted to go home with all our new things...
But it was a nice Christmas where we were 12 people pretty nice!
I´m not good with smoke so when we got home we took a shower and I did the laundry it was smelling of smoke and food!!!

Merry Christmas

I wish Everyone A Merry Christmas...

I went with my ex and Emil to Ejby at his moms... We were about 12 people..
We tried to get Emil to take his nap so he would be ready for later but nope he didn´t wanted to sleep.. We tried through the movie Cars. Saw Chistmas Dinner at 4pm which is a tradition to watch!! Emil was doing just fine afterwards until we weer going to eat he could and he was crying so we end up laying him down so he could sleep and only few minutes went by and he was sleeping.. he got alittle hours until we were done eating then we got ready to dance around the Christmas Tree. And Emil was with us and tried to sing few songs with us lol;O)
Afterwards we were opeining gifts and he and I got sooo many... really nice...
He got clothes, books, toys etc and I got perfume, book, clothes, gifts token, games etc
Emil came in bed at 10pm.. and slept until around 9am!!!
When Emil went to bed, the rest of us went around the table to play a game where everyone had brought a gift.. So we played with dice and when you got a 6th you exchanged gifts... A lot of fun...

The Day Before Christmas...

My ex , Emil and I drove to the forrest for a walk.. It was pretty nice and nice weathers..
Els just relaxed and had a nice day!!!

Exchange Christmas Gifts..

First met with Rikke to buy lunch then we went home and had lunch and exchange Christmas Gifts...

Later we went at my mom for dinner and to exchange Christmas gifts.. First as usual Emil wanted to go home until he has been there for a while.. But he walked around with his booths on eating few cookies and had a nice time;O) I looked at some pictures from when I was a kid same age as Emil but aren´t sure its me he looks alike....
Stayed couple of hours before we drove home, after a really nice time;O)

Allergy

We my ex and I went with Emil to Specialist in allergy because they say in his day nursery that they think he has food allergy!!!
We talked and he told us that we had to take a bloodtest for couple of things to find out that way if Emil is allergic to some sort of food...
We went to take some bloodtest and Emil went in to panic because we had to hold him and the nurses thought the reason was because he didn´t like needle but it was most because we had to hold him....
I had take the day off... pretty nice so we just went home to relax and play with his toys etc!
Later my cousin came by to exchange Christmas gifts... When I came back from London she had written a letter and said she was sorry.. So we talked alittle about what happen...

Dinner At My Aunt And Uncle.

Emil´s granddad looked after him while I was at work.. Emil was feeling better but took an extra day..
When I came home his granddad told me he didn´t wanted to take his nap Emil felt asleep few minutes before I came home.. So Emil got to sleep a little hour before we drove at the country to my aunt and uncle..
It was really nice as usuall, They had bought Christmas gifts for us and I hadn´t brought anything which was very bad. But emil he got socks with Calgary´s NHL Team "Calgary Flames"
and I got a Lucky penny key chain from Calgary..
Pretty nice and I saw photos from my uncle´s son wedding, he got married October last year!!

Game Day

I had invited some friends over where we play board games, games and have a nice time...
My ex came over with Emil because my ex needed to do some things I think it was Christmas shopping.. But emil was here while the girls were here. It was fun and really nice!!
Ihad Emil because he was too sick to go with his dad... Chicken Pox! Emil was going crazy because he had sooo many and they were ichy...

HangOver

Pew I felt aweful the day after being sick but its the first time since.... I can´t remember!!
At around 11am my ex came with Emil he was going to be here for an hour while his dad had to buy some Christmas gifts... I felt fine at that time and could play a lilttle with him..
A friend was coming but when she came I was sick and tired so I cancelled.. We talked about doing it another day!!
Slept couple of hours.... And felt just fine again and not sick anymore...

Christmas Dinner

Christmas Dinner at work.. At 12 we began cooking 6 different meals with pasta salads and ordinary salad... We were done at 7pm where the others came.... We were about 25 people and it was sooo much fun. Between the meals we had a game, one with dice where it had to be a 6th and then you put some clothes on and try to open a gift with a plastic knife and fork and its until the next person who gets a 6th. Just before one of my colleague opened it, I got a 6th but he opened anyway but because he had almost no hair i got the gift token to a hairdresser....
One of my colleague had brought a bottle Absolute Vodka and we were about 4 to drink it plus we drank more and pew... But we had sooo much fun drinking, laughing and dancing..
I got sooo drunk and around 3am we walked downtown to a danceplace "Gabos" and danced until 5am where they closed and some of us went on to get something to eat and I was home at 6am..

Christmas Dance

At work we had a Christmas dance for everyone, it was fun and with great music.... later santa came with goodies;O)